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12 Animal Fortunes for the Fire Pig Month

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Fire Pig 丁亥 Month
November 7th 08:31-December 7th 01:09

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Fire Pig. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them just ask! Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Hard time getting the team work started this month. It feels like there’s someone in the way, especially when it comes to creative projects and timely communication. If this is you? Time to fire up your support system. That’s the best way to clash yourself.
Hint: “Disappointing” others > Silence

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
As endings come into view, it looks like an “I told you so” moment for the Rat. Internally you may find these quite satisfying. Externally they tend to transform interaction into competition, retarding the growth of the seeds you have sown with love and care.
Hint: Many paths lead to the same place but some take longer. Let it be.

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
For the Ox, the Metal Ox year begins now. I say this to remind you to use the solid grip on success you have for the next two months to maximize your endurance for the coming year.
Hint: If you’re not sure what to do with that, focus on health both mental and physical. Attention to grooming.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
It’s rare not to find you engaged in obtaining resources, nor to find you assisting an underdog. This month emphasizes your acquisitive side while asking you to use it on behalf of a disadvantaged party.
Hint: You’re going to need a bigger boat.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
An insightful but usually reticent friend is present with an important message to share. It may seem forceful or judgmental on the surface but it’s love that drives the expression; that and the assumption of a common experience. An assumption.
Hint: Hear them out. Could be the turning point you’ve been looking for this year.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Opportunities for money and success come thick and fast possibly throwing you off of your natural timing. You’ll be moving more quickly than usual or maybe it’s just that you don’t get to spend so much time in your cave of contemplation.
Hint: Perfect timing to get comfortable with the discomfort that comes with success.

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You may have the desire to move house but find that path temporarily blocked. The beginning of a remodel is a stronger possibility, but be careful with that because what you tear down may take quite a bit longer to put back together than you had planned.
Hint: Having several back up plans are a good idea if this is a live issue for you.

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Savor last month’s success because it’s back to slow and steady again. Nay? Like the Snake you will benefit from patience and alternate plans. This month, focus on your work. You can probably get good recognition for it. Don’t push.
Hint: Yes, domestic work is included. Do what the Sheep wants – on purpose.

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Sheep will be asked to finish what others have started this month, and you’re kind of used to that aren’t you? In fact, for better or worse that’s played a major role in your success. It’s going to be a good month even though it’s not really the time for big gatherings is it? Sorry about that.
Hint: Pursue what you value. Stay safe.

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
That opposition that you’re picking up on? I’d pay attention to that because this month you have the ability to perceive what’s coming well before it arrives. If you look up from your work, that is.
Hint: Seriously, you’ve got a lot to do. Don’t promise more than you can deliver. Plan.

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Like the Monkey, you’ve got a lot to do. You like to turn things around in one day when you can and this month will favor that kind of attention span. For best results stay warm and dry.
Hint: Calculate your schedule so as to avoid becoming exhausted.

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
In the Pig month, the Dog often meets up with old friends. The kind you might not see for 11 months but when you get together again it’s like you just saw each other yesterday. This is still possible – from a safe distance.
Hint: Sometimes giving protection means letting someone know you still care.

Precedents, Presidents, and Vice Presidents

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Tuesday November 3rd 2020 is almost here. We all want to know what’s going to happen.

I already missed my chance to forecast the confirmation of Amy Coney Barrett whose Ba Zi immediately gives away that in terms of her work/job, 2021 is probably the most significant year ever. I chickened out.

As Amy Coney Barrett was born in a Water Rat year (1972) it’s hard to ignore that the Ingratitude Penalty is built into her maiden name Coney, which is another name for rabbit. The Ingratitude Penalty between Rat and Rabbit has to do with intergenerational values that are shared or not, and how that is perceived by each party.

The Rabbit branch in a Ba Zi sometimes signifies a Mother. Being the oldest and a daughter in a family with seven children, I expect Amy may still take issue with hers. This might have to do with her mother’s work outside the home. I would go so far as to guess Amy was born in the Rabbit hour (5-7am). That might explain a lot. Maybe she’ll have a change of heart in 2023.

Apparently I’m still trying to distract from what I’m writing about here. I’m a little nervous but it’s now or never if I want to forecast the election.

2020 US Presidential Election

First of all, don’t expect a quick resolution. I don’t think you need to be a diviner to pick up on that. It’s going to be messy.

What I do know is that every Qi Men Dun Jia pan I’ve drafted around the question of the 2020 Presidential election since early 2019 has indicated we will have a woman for President in 2021. I have to admit I kind of gave up on my interpretation once Elizabeth Warren dropped out. I think that was a big mistake – me being led astray by what I wanted to happen instead of considering how it could happen that a woman would be the “winner”. Sometimes I give up too easily.

Simply looking at the history of US Presidential elections in a Metal Rat year like 2020 (1840, 1900, 1960) it seems pretty clear that whoever is elected is probably not going to remain in office for a full term. If you don’t know what I mean, I’m referring to the pattern you can see with William Henry Harrison, William McKinley and John F. Kennedy.

So what’s my point here? Since we’re looking at similar cycles in time, we can probably expect some iteration of what came before, and of course, the character of the VP who succeeds is very important too.

10th US President
John Tyler, who succeeded Harrison, set the precedent for how we handle the death of a sitting President. Harrison was the first President to die in office. John Tyler’s actions paved the way for the 25th amendment which deals with exactly this situation. Being a Constructionist and believer in Manifest Destiny, Tyler rushed to take the oath and assume full Presidential powers before a potential Constitutional crisis could occur.

26th US President
It was Teddy Roosevelt who took over for McKinley. We mostly know Teddy Roosevelt for his work of establishing the National Parks. He is also known for the Three Cs: Conservation of Natural Resources, Control of Corporations, Consumer Protection. Teddy Roosevelt’s agenda is interesting and desirable to me as a possible outcome. His Square Deal sounds made to order for 2021. Roosevelt was a proponent of changing the rules of commerce to equalize opportunity and reward – to include a wider range of recipients and beneficiaries. Teddy had a concern about “the representatives of predatory wealth”. Sound familiar?

36th US President
Lyndon B. Johnson, successor of JFK, having already been involved in the passing of the Civil Rights Act, was hoping for a “Great Society”. To build it, he was looking to support further civil rights, public broadcasting, Medicare, Medicaid, education, the arts, urban and rural development, and public services. LBJ waged a “War on Poverty” by helping millions of Americans rise above the poverty line. He worked to ban racial discrimination in the housing market and even backed the Immigration and Nationality Act of 1965 to encourage and welcome immigrants from non-European countries. All of his domestic policy work is overshadowed, in some circles, by his escalation of American participation in the Viet Nam war. There’s no perfect President. We already know that.

Now it’s 2020. Who will be the 46th US President? I like to frame the question that way if you get my drift.

What if I actually interpreted my QMDJ pans correctly and our first woman President comes into office in 2021? That would be Kamala Harris. Based on her Ba Zi, I think she may take office in the Sheep month (July 7th-August 7th). Kamala’s Ba Zi indicates that an Ox year could be the start of something big, but not until July. I’d say Kamala’s current Da Yun (Big Fate) supports that right now, but I don’t see her being elected in 2024.

Simply based on her year pillar Wood Dragon, it’s easy to understand why so many have the impression of her as a powerful person who might be into power for power’s sake. On the plus side, her power is real. Her job is based on it. The only person that can get in Kamala Harris’ way is Kamala Harris. It remains to be seen what she has learned over the years. I’ll just leave that there.

If I’m wrong about the outcome of the election, I’ll learn from that. If I’m right, watch for further analysis of Kamala Harris’ Ba Zi. Until then, I wish you love and peace.

12 Animal Fortunes for the Fire Dog Month

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Fire Dog 丙戌 Month
October 8th 05:15-November 7th 08:31

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Fire Dog. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them just ask! Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
There are resources and ideas available to you now that you may have forgotten back in January. Make yourself safe while taking in the unfamiliar. Be present. Amplify your support of the people that support you. Sincerity, like good fences, makes for good neighbors.
Hint: There are penalties for moving boundaries without permission.

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Seems pretty likely you’ll be drawn into a joint endeavor with Dog and Rabbit. Good thing too as you will stay on top of the details and keep things moving. Consider letting things move at a faster pace than you’re usually comfortable with.
Hint: Delegate with love and trust!

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You know speaking about difficult matters is one of your super powers, but do you still not realize how much your influence penetrates every opening? Careful of discouraging healthy optimism or innocence with your words. That includes yours too.
Hint: Kindness finds a way for truth to be a shared experience.

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Looks like some parenting type issues in play this month. Who/what do you over nurture? Under nurture? How do you seek a balanced outcome? Is it hard to stop thinking about it? There are many choices beyond falling in or falling off. Take heart and pick one.
Hint: I think the clock is slow.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The season facilitates endings and completions so no need to be overly aggressive in pushing others to assist. Slow down and make way for winter’s deep well of ideas and introspection. Keep home and your workplace well lit.
Hint: It will all get done more quickly than you imagine.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You’re in demand as a witness, friend and co-worker. Use your natural charm and your deep network to engage assistance in preparing your home for winter. Ask a favor from a Dog if you (or someone else) need assistance with housing.
Hint: It’s fine to say no. Give encouragement where you see fit.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You’ve had an advantage this year in matters of setting boundaries. Have you noticed? If you find yourself in a conflict about that this month, it would serve you well to remember you still do.
Hint: Use force with restraint, care and consideration. Don’t get distracted by the money.

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Snakes that are looking for a work can find it this month though it may feel like there are multiple competitors behind the scenes. It may require additional training even though it leaves you underemployed, but it’s a pay check. There’s still a feeling of loose ends for the Snake for a few more months.
Hint: Don’t forget that change will come. You know it always does.

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Horses get a break this month when important things finally go as planned. Phew! I hope you don’t take it for granted. Be careful of asking those who are helping you out to do all the “heavy lifting”, regardless of your health.
Hint: This is the completion you’ve been looking for. Celebrate.

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Lots of clashes among friends and acquaintances mean the Sheep may be best served by staying out of conspiracies. Watch for bullies in the guise of helpers. Wolves in Sheep’s clothing and vice versa.
Hint: Sounds scary but isn’t. You can trust your gut.

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
These are the people in your neighborhood, for better or worse. You’ve been asked to learn a lot this year, and patience is one of the lessons. Maybe you don’t need to have a meeting of the minds to get along. Just saying.
Hint: What activities help you to counter the physical manifestations of of stress? Do those.

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The relationships you formed this year due to proximity may not meet all of your high standards, but be careful of criticizing in others the qualities that bother you most about yourself. Trust will bring out loyalty. That’s more valuable than perfection.
Hint: Value good intentions as well as the “flawed” actions that may follow.

Rooster Month: Stuck On the Yin Side?

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The lack of good water placement dates this month is indicative of the Rooster’s uneasy relationship with Water. I’d say it’s something like seduction vs. truth telling. I don’t necessarily see those concepts as opposites or mutually exclusive even though they often seem to play out that way in real life.

In a Rat year the Rooster month signals the possible timing of a breakup rather than the beginning of a long term proposition. This will be a choice, not an inevitability. The Water element of the Rat gives us emotional expression, communication and intimacy – or not. That’s up to you. The position of the branch(es) in your natal chart will tell you what to expect. Get in touch if you want to talk about yours.

The Rooster is called a Peach Blossom branch and naturally attracts the attention of the Monkey, Rat and Dragon, also known as the Triple Water Combination. The Rooster, being a branch of pure Metal, also produces or supports Water. A Rooster tends to pump up the Water element to overflowing if you get my meaning. Right now, this kind of attention could be draining for the Rooster. Rooster month is not the time to seek it.

This time around the Rooster month is a Wood Rooster. The Wood Rooster is sometimes called the Rooster crowing at noon. That’s too late right? Or is it way too early? Is it a false alarm or an emergency? It’s difficult to say. With so many warnings in play these days, you might be tempted by the potential bliss of ignoring all and hoping for the best. I get that, however, I think you’ll find it more helpful to think about what you under/over emphasized in September 2005. What deals did you make then? What would you do differently now?

If you’ve got a Rooster in your BaZi, the excess Water of 2020 could be a release, welcome or not, of what you’ve been needing to express. In some cases this same excess Water may instill a deep and cold fear in the Rooster; an insidious damp. Some Roosters will experience this on a physical level. There are names for this condition in traditional Chinese medicine that, unlike those of Western medicine, imply there is a way to heal. The cycle of the Five Elements is at the root of the difference here. There is no element that is bad or wrong but you’ve got to keep up with tweaking the levels. Like acupuncture and herbs, the practice of Feng Shui is a way to interact with an energetic system in a way that supports its self regulation; a return to health.

Water is moving, flexible and unstable, therefore it comes with pitfalls and risk, both literally and metaphorically. If you know your trigrams this is Kan, the middle son, the emotional one. In the Flying Stars system it’s Star 1 which occupies the center of every building along with Star 7 (yin Metal like the Rooster) until October 8th. If your anxiety is running high you’ll want to know it does have some relationship with timing.

When there is too much Water, the Rooster may employ spiritual bypass, or other addictions, as a coping mechanism. On the other end of the spectrum, the Rooster may decide to pick a fight. The Rooster is so yin that they often come across as yang; extreme fear manifesting as extreme aggression and other types of self harm.

Many a Rooster will have decided, in an attempt to hide their own imperfections, not to let people in. With a Snake present it will take longer to realize this because the Rooster will be secretive, or at least prone to omit. Trust doesn’t come easily when you’re afraid you will be displaced or discarded for your flaws. If this speaks to you my question is: do you understand you could be missing out on the experience of loving and being loved?

This month is a time to remember that perhaps you are being haunted by your own standards, not by those of others. What do you care about? What are your rules? Can you live up to them? Is it humanly possible? Can you see that there is no perfection without imperfection?

The Rooster’s exacting nature is one reason people think Roosters are cold hearted. They’re not. Yang fire is reborn in the Tiger, but yin Fire is reborn in the Rooster. It’s a candle flame that needs encouragement, so stoke it by recognizing and celebrating your successes no matter how small you think they are. They are enough. Let yourself be satisfied.

Given that we’re all prone to the Rooster’s self clash this month, it’s tempting to choose to dam up until we feel it’s safe to communicate, or open the flood gates when we’ve reached the breaking point. You’ve probably already learned that those methods isolate and exacerbate. I know that’s not what you want. And forget the idea that there is such a thing as one and done when it comes to communication. Handle the Water drop by drop instead. If you’re questioning whether you have any endurance left for that, the answer is yes.

“I used to hate myself but now I think I’m alright”
Small Poppies by Courtney Barnett (Fire Rabbit Year)

12 Animal Fortunes for the Wood Rooster Month

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Wood Rooster 乙酉 Month
September 7 13:12-October 8th 05:15

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Wood Rooster. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them just ask! Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Whatever you’ve been battling since last fall can end now. The price is your consistent attention. Look inward and outward at the same time. Find the Dragon, bring back the ganas. ¿Entiende?
Hint: Don’t let fear trump endurance. You do have it in you.

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The Rooster month may seem like a whole lot of going on about nothing, but there’s valuable intel in the mix. Clear out some space now to accommodate next month’s healthy boundaries.
Hint: Prick up your ears.

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
So much of this year has hinged on startling revelations of unspoken values and alliances of acquaintances, family and friends, but this month makes it crystal clear who you can count on.
Hint: It’s all out in the open now. Believe it.

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Romantically speaking (and in other relationships) you hold the whip hand this month. In case of break up, a Rat might either go over the top with giving the reasons why they’re leaving or disappear like a ghost. Have a heart!
Hint: Seek emotional intelligence for the win-win

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You’d think the metal of the Rooster would mean the Ox is productive but at this point in the calendar Earth is worn out. Take some time to play and rest. Attention to appearance may provide an advantage if you want one.
Hint: Finish, refine, edit what you can.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You’re luckier than you realize. I say this because I can tell you’re not feeling it. Your relationships with those you think are least like you are prominent this month. Seeking them out supports a healthy growth pattern.
Hint: Embrace the discomfort to reap the reward.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Disagreements about gender, sexuality and loyalty arise, seemingly out of jealousy and bitterness. Some of this may have to do with parents. We all make mistakes that we regret.
Hint: You might one day find yourself in the same position.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
A strong attraction or attachment brings demands for you to change shape or define your position. Could be a request for commitment. Incorporate the dissonance into your successful enterprise as usual.
Hint: Attend to practical matters too.

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Push your luck. Take what you’ve been working on since May a step further. Where do you want to be with that in January? What you do this month will make it all possible.
Hint: This is probably your luckiest month of the year.

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
If you have a feeling that some private business is about to become public, you’re probably right. Ultimately it’s for the best. I hope you’re still making back up plans.
Hint: What if it’s not an emergency?

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
A friend, advisor or mentor is attacked and you may feel compelled to speak up on their behalf. Instead, provide the assistance they might need to be able to do it themselves.
Hint: Solidarity is where it’s at.

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The precarious peak of endurance. Finish the things that call for it. Yes, it’s downhill from here but that’s not the dire prediction you might think it is.
Hint: Put the word out now if you need resources/work. Set agenda based on what you want for December.

Monkey Month : Strangers, Guests and Gods

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Possibly even more so than November, this is the deciding month of the year. It’s a Wood Monkey month so decisions will have a lasting effect. If that makes you anxious, you need to know it’s care that will make all the difference. I’ve seen the evidence that this is true many times. Caring can bridge even the widest gap between what you want and what you think is possible.

Last year around this time, in the Water Monkey month, I met Marin, a morosely earnest plumber who really cares about his work. He and his family moved to Seattle from Chicago because, he said, many people in the trades were being shot and robbed of their tools and equipment when they were driving to work. He felt that Chicago was too dangerous for his family because he might be killed. Marin was less afraid of dying than the effect it would have on his family.

I got the impression that Marin had his own business before he came to Seattle but at the time I met him he was working for a well known franchise. It seemed like a demotion – not that he presented it that way. The thing that stood out most about Marin was that he seemed sad in that way people who have a hard time breathing do. My guess at his year? 1980 Metal Monkey: translates knowledge from brain through hands, likes a little chat, potential respiratory issues.

When his work was done and it was time to settle up I offered Marin a chair and a glass of water. He declined the water saying “Not everyone is so kind, so I carry my own.” I thought to myself, what kind of world are we living in where people don’t at least offer a glass of water to someone who is visiting their home environment?

What made me remember Marin was that I’ve been thinking lately about the Greek custom of ξενία (xenia) which concerns the appropriate treatment of people who come into our space. Xenia is translated as guest friendship. The root of xenia is ξένος (xenos) which links together the meanings of stranger and guest. They are the same.

If you’re familiar with Greek tragedies, you’ll know that much of the plot turns on someone’s hidden identity. Any stranger could be an important person and your destiny could be decided by how you treat them. An unknown traveller could be your father, mother, another family member or even a deity. The stakes are high whether you know it or not.

Many fairy tales, fables and folktales are based on this principle as well. A person in a vulnerable or humble position requires assistance. Even if you have little to offer, if you choose to help, you might discover the “old beggar” is not what they seem. In fact, some have the power to transform your life. The moral of the story is: act as if they all do. Those who don’t usually find the story has a much different ending.

I’d say treating anyone you meet for the first time as potentially divine is a good place to start given where we are now. I’ve seen that kind of behavior bring out the best in people I didn’t know, as well as people I knew but didn’t trust. Haven’t you?

The underlying philosophy of xenia was to offer the guest/stranger the guest gifts, that is, the best of whatever you had. Xenia came to be a standard practice in ancient Greek culture. In this system, both the guest and the host have certain rights and responsibilities.

The host is meant to provide the guest with food and drink, a place to rest and wash up, and safe passage home. The meeting of basic needs was job one. It was even considered rude to ask the guest too many questions before the food had been provided.

The responsibility of the guest is to enjoy the facilities of the host courteously, to refrain from threatening, overstaying or overburdening, and to bring whatever news they have from their home or travels. If they are able to entertain with music, singing or storytelling, even better. The guest would be expected to reciprocate the host’s hospitality and extend it to relatives and representatives of the host whenever the occasion should arise.

Citizens of the world, this is how we unite.

The custom of xenia promotes survival, however, it goes a step beyond that by creating peace across generations through simple and practical alliances. It only takes one common value. Xenia is a proactive standard of reciprocation in kindness; the opposite of an eye for an eye.

I see 2021 as a rebirth of xenia. This is our movement, let’s spread it far and wide. We can share water. We can carry water with good intention and care not to spill. I think it’s within reach for all of us. It’s care that makes all the difference.

At the end of our time together on that morning that seems a million light years ago now, I told Marin I hoped that things would be better here in Seattle for him and his family. We shook hands, he turned, and as he went out the door I heard him say “God bless you.” Safe passage Marin. I hope you and your family are well.

12 Animal Fortunes for the Wood Monkey Month

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Wood Monkey 甲申 Month
August 7 09:51-September 7 13:12

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Wood Monkey. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them get in touch. Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Something like graduation arrives. This month is mostly for making decisions about money and how you think of success. For women this may focus on a partner or husband. Earth and Metal Monkeys get an unexpected windfall.
Hint: No need to rush the choices when you have a whole month.

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
A playful time with the good company. Have fun! This might be the best month of the year, especially for Earth and Water Roosters. Generous friends share their plenty
Hint: The hand you open to give is also the hand that receives.

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Literally lots of work to be done if you’re looking for a promotion. This month it’s available. Favors those who have been working on it already this year.
Hint: Some extra effort will turn bitterness of being passed over earlier this year into what you wanted.

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You may be called upon to help a friend who is in despair and feeling helpless. Careful of those who might take unfair advantage of your innocence for financial or other gain.
Hint: Protect your own health first: physical, financial and otherwise.

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
If you’re going to shape shift now’s your moment. Time to start over. Go over the lessons you’ve learned this year. What would you do and say differently? This is the month to actualize that. Go the extra mile.
Hint: Whatever you start now will peak in December. What will you choose?

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Back in charge of the year for now, but you can feel it waning can’t you? This will be somewhat of a relief for the Ox who would prefer not to be so, ahem, prominent. Luckiest this month? Wood Ox.
Hint: Aligning with someone who shares your standards will alleviate the overwhelming feeling of responsibility but you have to trust too.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
When there’s unfairness against you, or anyone you care about for that matter, you feel stimulated to make it right. You’ll be fine as long as you don’t get lured into juvenile conflicts or games of chicken.
Hint: Careful of whose space you’re getting into.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You may feel both attracted to and harmed by religion and other institutions that have come to embody patriarchy. This has proven to be an especially potent trap for women and others whose mission is empowerment.
Hint: If you don’t agree with the standards, don’t conform to them. There is a place for you.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Dragons are offered new jobs this month. It could be the promotion that is easily and readily available to you now is the same one the Dog has been pursuing with hard labor. Typical Dragon magic. Don’t pursue getting the offer if you don’t want the job.
Hint: It’s either hands on or hands off. Choose one.

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Strong emotions and worries about the truth make it hard to resolve a disappointing relationship with a parent, teacher or guru. If your Snake is in the day branch, honesty with yourself and those closest to you is crucial this month.
Hint: If you want to break up, then break up. Your feelings are not a secret.

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Monkey month puts the Horse in pursuit of a Father or fatherly figure to teach, lead and forgive. Many of the Horse’s ideas about success involve the seduction or capitulation of authority. In the end the Horse is often the first to knock a beloved off of the pedestal. Fickle much?
Hint: What have you learned about that this year?

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
This month feels like a bit of a damper but increases your integrity and personal authority by leaps and bounds. Wake up to your agency as it applies within community and in your work.
Hint: Whose values are you modeling? Best if they’re yours.

12 Animal Fortunes for the Water Sheep Month

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Water Sheep 癸未 Month
July 6 23:46-August 7 09:51

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Water Sheep. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them get in touch. Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Pennies from heaven come around mid-month. Offered a new job? Put off your start date until August if possible. Be ready for direct questioning and even criticism of your values or claims by those who feel you are a competitor. Consider that you might be looking to generate that feedback.
Hint: Honor your receptive nature by trusting what you know.

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Prepare for the important decisions that will be required of you next month; they have to do with money. There’s a nurturing person nearby that has time to take care of practical details so you can focus on your work. Pay attention when it comes to their advice and insight.
Hint: Complete things. Clear the decks to be ready for next month’s success.

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
In one way or another, this month may feel a little stifling for the Rooster. The support you have makes you feel left out even though the intention behind it is sweet enough. Participate rather than perform and prove yourself wrong.
Hint: If you’re jealous of another’s domestic situation then do something about yours.

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
It’s a fine line between boss and bully this month and even if it’s in your job description it may be best to refrain from crowd control. Don’t let feeling restless and competitive draw you into the open. Stay home.
Hint: Delegate and trust. Observe, protect if necessary, but let things play out.

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
You are welcome! There’s a community waiting for your arrival. Are you willing to leave behind acquaintances and friends whose politics don’t match up with where you want to be? It’s the perfect time to consider these ideas. Whatever you do this month is going to last so give yourself the space and time to make that decision in August. Measure twice, cut once.
Hint: A humble approach is usually your strongest.

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Rats! Your Number One is ousted this month. You may be feeling more alone than you have since March, however, it’s time to revel in the freedom of finding your work and ideas aren’t being used for someone else’s benefit or cause. That’s been a problem this year hasn’t it?
Hint: Take some time off to rethink your agenda. Next month brings a fresh start.

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The clash of the Sheep gives you a break from your executive duties. How you feel about that is akin to your feelings about optimism. It’s not that you don’t enjoy it – it’s that you only like a certain kind. This is a helpful month for examining routines that could be stale and no longer fit your current values.
Hint: Use your critics (imagined critics?) to help you sort out what you want to change whether they are right or not.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The month invites you to focus your predatory tendencies on compassionate endeavors. If you’re looking for a new job it will probably involve assisting groups. They have the numbers but you have the leadership. Oversee a dispute about values and you could unite unlikely allies. Avoid physical risk.
Hint: You may actually have to change your position openly rather than relying on your flexibility.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
This is your month to shine. Don’t let the year’s background noise distract you from taking advantage of that. Your ancestors have always supporting your development, even with all the mistakes you may think they have made. You wouldn’t be here without them.
Hint: If there’s a cycle that doesn’t support a healthy family, it’s your work to break it now for the following generations.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Watch for the proxy conflict so you can make a decision about whether you want to participate and whose side you might want to take. You’re probably going to be asked to defend or protect but – are you willing to help a competitor? Join a community? Consider what is your responsibility if any.
Hint: Maybe the question is how? And in what role?

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Could be some unexpected blockages and reversals because your network of allies is struggling too. There’s plenty of work to do but money may not match your effort. Endings feel incomplete. It’s the short term openings and opportunities you want to look for this month to make the most of it. Be ready to act when they arrive.
Hint: Stay flexible. It’s only a month.

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Here’s a little stability courtesy of the Sheep. Be sure to actively appreciate those around you who have been your biggest supporters through this difficult year. If you’ve been having health issues, continue to seek and refine treatment. Be open to changing the plan but don’t give up.
Hint: As for work, you may be tempted to give up on that too. Take a break instead. You’ve been here before and you know when you feel this way your timing is off.

12 Animal Fortunes for the Water Horse Month

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Water Horse 壬午 Month
June 5th 13:49-July 6 23:46

Here are the Animal Fortunes for the month of the Water Horse. To get the most out of the fortunes you’ll want to know all four of your pillars which are based on your birth date and time.

If you don’t know them get in touch. Each of the four animals of your BaZi correlates with an aspect of your life.

Year Pillar
Has to do with your physical body and what you do with it, ancestors, family traits. In terms of luck the year pillar is said to take the first “hit” of any event, good or bad.

Month Pillar
Relates to career, work environment, training, age mates and peers, siblings, exes and your modus operandi

Day Pillar
Yourself and true partner; your immediate environment and home life.

Hour Pillar
Your innermost self, your children, future, hopes and dreams.

The Fortunes

午 Horse
Years: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026
Month: June roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Billy, don’t be a Nero. Don’t be a fool with your life. Seriously though. you made it this far. Stay the course. If you’re afraid, say something instead of bolting in the wrong direction. Don’t blow it at what could be the finish line for all.
Hint: You’re farther ahead than you think.

未 Sheep
Years: 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
Month: July roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Expect a call from someone who is on the rebound from a difficult experience. You’re sweet to offer comfort. The question is: What’s in it for you? You’ll want to be clear with yourself about that from the start. It may change your mind. Or not.
Hint: My question is sincere, not a value judgment.

申 Monkey
Years: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
Month: August roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Start something that you want to last. Call in debts and favors. If last month was problematic for your reputation this month you make repairs. Don’t let anything force you to rush your elegant work.
Hint: As you know, finding the right words will get you whatever you want.

酉 Rooster
Years: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029
Month: September roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Good month for a doctor visit – the routine kind. I’m not predicting a disaster. If you’ve got a habit you want to break this month you have an advantage. You’ll be attracting the modern, inclusive equivalent of “gentleman callers” so get a haircut if you can. I know you like that.
Hint: Charm your way in. Yes, you can.

戌 Dog
Years: 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
Month: October roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Pretty good month for the Dog. Set up a new home office. Set up a new home. Start a new health or exercise regimen. Do things that strengthen and promote relationship. Great ideas are in the air and you’re on the scent.
Hint: Only stubbornness can hinder you.

亥 Pig
Years: 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2018, 2030
Month: November roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
There are days this month that may assist with quick bursts of achievement. Paradoxically, those will be Snake days. If you want a short-term job you can find one.
Hint: A clash can improve health when you let it.

子 Rat
Years: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
Month: December roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Whatever you’ve dished out this year is coming back around now, but I know you’ve been more careful with your words than usual. You may find you have issues with people cutting the line. Let them reap what they will.
Hint: This isn’t the month to remind anyone that you are the boss. Even though you kind of are.

丑 Ox
Years: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021
Month: January roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Horse month brings a harm but it’s one that makes you stronger in the end. This is a good month to take time off and get up to date with where you are emotionally as well as with physical health. Plenty of uncertainty. It’s hard to be in charge all the time.
Hint: Take a break. Hydrotherapy might be great if it’s safe. Get up to date on that too if it interests you.

寅 Tiger
Years: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022
Month: February roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Here in the space between the Snake and the Monkey it’s time to have some fun! It’s going to require some creativity, but that won’t be a problem for you. Your favorite kind of ideas (ahead of their time) are the ones to follow. I know you’ll follow precautions…so just do it.
Hint: Come down from your observation point and be seen. You’re the one to watch this month.

卯 Rabbit
Years: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023
Month: March roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
If you’re considering a career in the world of woo woo, it’s time to commit to a course of esoteric studies. You are often aware of what others are feeling. This month you may be bordering on psychic.
Hint: The next two months are quite supportive for starting a new practice.

辰 Dragon
Years: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024
Month: April roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
The month brings a brief opening to build your reputation. You and the Horse have a surprising mutual support relationship that benefits both parties. Share thoughts. Supporters call attention to your work.
Hint: Suffer being understood.

巳 Snake
Years: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025
Month: May roughly. If you’re near the beginning or end ask.
Not a bad month, but it’s not time to start anything new. Take some time off if possible. If you must work make a point of spreading the word about what you’ve been doing and what you’re planning to do next. That’ll pay off.
Hint: Avoid risk. Count blessings.

Water Horse, Willow Tree

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The coming Water Horse month starts Friday afternoon. That’s June 5th. The Full Moon arrives that day along with a penumbral lunar eclipse. June 6th suggests hoped for but unexpected good news. My calendar tells me this month is going to be better than the Snake month for sure. There are many more good days for everyone.

Having said that, I want to tell you now that June 21st, the summer solstice, is probably the most difficult day of the month. There’s a solar eclipse that day. It’s a Remove Day and it carries tendencies of self harm, of going along to get along and the damage inflicted.

If you’re following the Chinese calendar, it’s the day before the solstice sets the stage. That’s the 20th which is called a 4 Separating Day. Some masters think you can get rid of those who are harassing you on Separating days. On the west coast of the United States, the New Moon at 23:41 is close to the timing of the solar eclipse. Being a Wood Horse day, it’s also called a Year Breaker. In spite of these portents it’s still rated as a pretty good day. The day matches the Wood Horse pillar in Trump’s Ba Zi which is key as to how the chart functions.

One way to interpret these omens is that there are multiple big events about to go down quickly. This is scary but not necessarily negative. There’s a new start for women where there’s an ending for men. I’m curious to see what will happen. Clearly something or someone is trying to get out attention. Could this be our mandate of heaven? Can we finally shift the balance of power?

It’s a Fire Rat day as I write this. In Ba Zi the relationship of the Fire Rat and the Water Horse is called Fan Yin; a clash from top to bottom. I know we can all feel that. It’s hard to write these words without weeping because my yearning for the finish line is so strong.

This may be true for all Horses but I think for the Water Horse there’s often a risk around endings. That applies to the Water Horse month too. Can we make it a finish line for sheltering in place? Can we make it a finish line for the misuse of power? It’s the finish line where the Horse’s most embarrassing mistakes often happen; where you’ve already won the race but… A Horse problem could be that without crossing the finish line the race never ends. A Horse may cultivate that kind of indecision.

The Lap Yum for this month, which is a phrase that summarizes the Water Horse, is Willow Tree. Willow Tree implies tears which could be a result of either a helpful wake up call or a disappointment. I think these are the tears and sadness that sometimes accompany the most important insights about ourselves. Could be tears of anger or embarrassment too. You can make a choice about this. Make it into something you want.

A clash of Water and Fire is filled with brilliant and progressive ideas if the balance of power is right. When the ideas can be bridged by the Wood element, it becomes a self sustaining system for the Horse. That’s joy.

How can you be part of the revolution? Speak softly and carry a big stick. Let’s say the big stick is kindness; the kindness that is the very least that those of us who are white or privileged can give at this moment in time.

Kindness isn’t necessarily being nice. On the yin side kindness is actively making space for others to thrive. Perhaps the yang side goes so far as to shelter and defend that space. Kindness is knowing when you have enough and someone else doesn’t, and that you are not diminished by foregoing or deferring. The smallest kindness might be simply getting the hell out of the way: your own or another’s.

The challenges of the coming month are both knowing when to quit and knowing when to step on the accelerator. The Water Horse carries a lot of North vs South stuff as does the USA, and yes I’m thinking slavery is part of that. One possible meaning of the Water Horse pillar is “sitting on or controlling the money”. That applies too.

This Water Horse month says it’s time to face up to the embarrassing facts about racism and who sits on the money. If we want change we will need to choose it. That’s a movement. If you’re looking for a simple solution, you can use the Wood element as a bridge. Make space for all. Protect and shelter the space. That’s kindness.